The social world is an enormous place for social learners. It is also a complicated, messy arena where social rules change with age, people, and places. It is dynamic and unpredictable and yet most of us learn to manage ourselves around others in spite of the complexity. Being a social learner is something we are expected to do over the course of our lives. We all experience periods of development where we gather and learn new information about how the social world works at our current stage of development: infant, child, teen, young adult, or elder. Sometimes learning how the social world works is neither intuitive nor logical, but it is based on development. The Social Thinking Methodology breaks down this complex learning into digestible parts based on the social learner's age and abilities.

Very young social learners observe others and gradually learn how to interpret what they see and experience. Young children develop their observational skills during play and from being around others. Introducing unique Social Thinking Vocabulary to early learners helps in their understanding of thoughts and feelings, reading others' plans, understanding groups and themselves as participants in the social world. Young children also need to learn about the social world in terms of social expectations for how to pay attention to what's happening, listen with their whole body and, over time, learn about their many different feelings and about regulating their feelings and behaviors by learning about their Zones of Regulation.

Social expectations grow as children go through the elementary years. Materials and tools for this age range are more sophisticated but still rely on visual supports and concrete examples. Social learners are expected to gradually hone their social detective abilities as they learn to observe the hidden rules and social norms around how people act in certain situations. Social learners also learn about themselves and the way the social world works in social situations by playing motivational games (Should I? or Shouldn't I?) that teach about perspective taking and unspoken social expectations. This information seeds their emerging ability to navigate to regulate in the social world. At school the social world is also explored in literature, history, and social studies. Social learners connect what they learn about the social world into their academic assignments in reading comprehension and written expression.

Learning how the social world works is only half of the social equation. Once social learners have the fundamentals of the social world, they need to understand how to work (navigate to regulate) in the social world. It's one thing to intellectually know what you should do in a situation and another thing to learn how to do it. This step is about being able to actually do it during real-time social situations! The Social Thinking Methodology uses motivating and practical strategies to help social learners in their quest to use all the social knowledge they have learned about the social world to help them navigate through social situations and regulate themselves while sharing social space with others, when interacting, when at home, or when doing a homework assignment. These tools are divided into developmental ages and abilities.

Knowledge about how the social world works now becomes the launching pad that younger social learners use to sort out hidden rules by identifying expected and unexpected behavior, practicing flexible thinking, problem-solving, regulating their actions and emotions, and putting it all together to make a social response (social skills) to become We-Thinkers rather than “me-thinkers.” Learners this age can also begin to see how their behaviors can impact the thoughts and emotions of others, as illustrated through our book, We Can Make It Better! Stories.

Social learners in this age range are expected to know, or at least be in the process of learning, how to regulate their own emotions and behaviors.  They are learning to use strategies for smart guesses, flexible thinking, size of the problem and other core Social Thinking Vocabulary found in our book, Social Thinking and Me. Having gained some abilities in social observation and being a social detective, learners are now ready to work (navigate to regulate) in the social world with our social self-regulation curriculum, Superflex…A Superhero Social Thinking Curriculum. Social learners go to the Superflex Academy where they are exposed to their Superflexible thinking superhero abilities inside themselves and learn strategies for defeating their social challenges (Unthinkables) and activating their can-do abilities (Thinkables). The Superflex Curriculum uses illustrated storybooks and fun, motivating lessons to teach practical strategies for dealing with attention (Superflex takes on Brain Eater and the Team of Unthinkables and Superflex and Focus Tron to the Rescue), overreactions to problems (Superflex takes on Glassman… and Superflex and Kool Q Cumber to the Rescue), and one-sided thinking and self-focus (Superflex takes on One-Sided Sid and Un-Wonderer).  Other lessons deal with common issues kids of this age face through the Unthinkables WasFunnyOnce, Worry Wall, or Mean Jean/Gene.

Tackling the core Unthinkables and activating Thinkables is just the beginning. Social Town introduces social learners to 82 additional characters and shares a Very Cool Five-Step Power Plan to further help social learners defeat their Unthinkables. Superflex games such as Superflex Bingo, Superflex Superdecks, and the Thinkables and Unthinkable Double Deck expand tools in a fun and motivating way. If you're wondering about the evidence for using superheroes to teach social skills, read more here.

Finally, elementary social learners are also ready to take a deeper dive into thinking and learning about the impact of their own thoughts on themselves and others (What is a Thought?) and how to navigate to regulate their feelings and behaviors using The Zones of Regulation.

Social learners in the teen years tend to have more obstacles competing with their abilities to use the social world knowledge they have gained. For example, anxiety, angst, risk aversion, and normal developmental awkwardness can hinder how social learners navigate classrooms, cliques, and community. The Social Thinking Methodology uses Thinksheets (rather than worksheets) to encourage deeper learning and build competencies. Visual tools, such as the Spirals of Anxiety, are designed to give practical strategies for coping with anxiety. Social Thinking Vocabulary such as learning to be comfortable with discomfort are key in this age range. Social Behavior Mapping is a powerful tool to teach the Social Emotional Chain Reaction (how our thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and reactions are all intertwined). Teen-friendly Manga style comics in our book, Social Fortune or Social Fate, teach this concept and motivate teens to keep their social learning alive.